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SURFING UNDER THE SUNSET SKIES
Monday, October 31, 2005

I am Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from Des Moines, Iowa.
I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons - something i've done for over thirty years.

Over the years I found that children have many levels of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a protegee, though i have taught some talented students. However i've also had my share of what i call "musically challenged" pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was eleven when his mother, a single Mom, dropped him off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys!) begin at an earlier age, which i explained to Robby. But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear him play the pian. So i took him as a student.

Well, Robby began with his piano lessons, and from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endearvour. As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel. But he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces that i require all my students to learn.

Over the months he tried and tried while i listend and cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly lesson he always said, "My Mom's going to hear me play someday." But it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always wave and smiled but never stopped in.

Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons. I thought about calling him but assumed, because of his lack of ability, that he had decided to pursue something else. I also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!

Several weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flyer on the upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if he could he be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils and because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his Mom had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessos but he was still practicing.

"Miss Hondorf... i've just got to play!" he insisted. I dont know what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it was his persistence, or maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be alright. The night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends and relatives.

I put Robby up last in the programme before i was to come up and thank all the students and play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the programme and I could always salvage his poor performance through my "curtain closer."

Well the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing and it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled and his hair looked like he'd run an eggbeater through it.

"Why didn't he dress up like the other students?" I though. "Why didnt his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?"

Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #1 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even dance nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo ... from allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were magnificent! Never had i heard Mozart's piece being played so well by a person his age. After six and a half minutes, he ended in a grand crescendo and everyone was on their feet in wild applause.

Overwhelm and in tears, I ran up on stage to put my arms around Robby in joy. "I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it?"

Through the microphone Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf... remember I told you my mum was sick? Well, actually, she had cancer and passed away this morning. And well... she was born dea, so tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."

There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. I though to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.

No, I've never had a protegee - but that night i became a protegee of Robby's. He was the teacher and I was the pupil. For it is he that taught me the meaning of perserverance and love, and believing in yourself, and maybe even taking a chance in someone. This is especially meaningful to me since, after serving in Desert Storm, Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April 1995, where he was reportedly playing the piano.

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